Todd Scott Redding passed away on January 25, 2026, from a sudden heart event at the age of 61. He lived a vibrant life, leaving a legacy of love and kindness that continues to shape those who knew him.  

Todd was born in Omaha, Nebraska on November 26th, 1964, and was adopted as a newborn to Paul and Nancy Redding. He and his older brother, Brad Redding, spent a few childhood years in Nebraska before the family moved to Wichita Falls, Texas when Todd was 4 years old. From a young age Todd excelled in school and was a gifted piano and trombone player. Growing up, he enjoyed animals, music, and cars- interests he carried into adulthood. Todd was accepted to Trinity University in San Antonio on an academic scholarship and graduated in 1987. He went on to earn his medical degree at UT Southwestern Medical School in Dallas, TX in 1991 and completed residency in Waco, TX. During his time in medical school, Todd met Elizabeth Haley and they were married 1989-2000.  Their two children, Allison and Andrew Redding, remained central in Todd’s life.

Todd started his practice in Bartlesville, OK and later moved to Tulsa in 2005. Todd’s career path expanded when he became a board-certified addiction medicine physician in 2009. Todd devoted his professional career to enhancing the health of his patients in every walk of life. He strongly believed his work as a physician was a God-given purpose to serve and care for others. Todd has remained an active member in his professional community. He was the current President of the Oklahoma Society of Addiction Medicine and a member of American Society of Addiction Medicine.

In 2019, during a dark period for them both, Todd and Tim reintroduced joy and love into each other’s lives. They were married in 2020. Tim said being with Todd felt like coming home to comfort and peace. Whether the world was glowing with light or falling apart, their love was steadfast and complete. Todd and Tim shared a love of travel, culture, and the performing arts. They frequently traveled to New York City, enjoyed Caribbean cruises, and held season tickets at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. They were also both active choir members at College Hill Presbyterian Church. Todd also served as an elder at both College Hill and Good Shepherd Presbyterian Church. Service to his community, in and outside the church, has been an integral part of his life’s work.

Family was one of the most important values in Todd’s life. In 2015, Todd reconnected with his birth mother, Patricia Gober, and they maintained a close relationship until her death in 2019. He cherished quality time with family and friends and went out of his way to make even simple occasions special and meaningful.

Todd defined his life by what he gave to others. He had a remarkable way of making people feel welcomed and accepted exactly as they were. His professional and personal pursuits were guided by selflessness, generosity, and quiet strength. Todd loved deeply, served humbly, and lived faithfully. His impact will continue to ripple through generations.

Todd is survived by his husband, Timothy Smith-Redding, his brother, Brad Redding (Bonnie) of La Grange, KY, his daughter, Allison Redding of Tyler, TX, his son, Andrew Redding (Caroline) of Chicago, IL, and his niece, Cierra Rohrbaugh (Connor) of Gunnison, CO. He was predeceased by his parents Paul and Nancy Redding and his birth mother, Patricia Gober.

A service celebrating Todd’s life will be held at College Hill Presbyterian Church on Saturday January 31, 2026, at 11am- 712 S Columbia Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Kendall Whittier Food Pantry or to the church, designated for the music fund.

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