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Joan Hayes
1936 - 2010
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Dorijean Wilson posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2010
There are so many wonderful things to say about mom. As I started jotting down key traits, I realized that many of them came from I Cor. 13 - the Love Chapter. Mom was patient and kind. She did not envy or boast. Mom was not proud or rude. She was not self- seeking or easily angered. Mom did not keep a record of wrongs. She protected, trusted, hoped and demonstrated great faith. Mom persevered until the end of her life. With mom, there were no strangers, only friends. Her smile would light up a room. She was easy to talk to and always seemed to make others feel important and welcome. Mom did not have a mean streak in her body. She was always quick to forgive. I came for a visit last Thanksgiving. She seemed a little tired, but none of us realized that she was sick. After the meal, I convinced mom to walk with me to the elementary school down the street and play on the slide and swings. She never complained of any pain…that was not her way…always looking out for others before taking care of her own needs. Mom was brave and strong during her battle with cancer. She fought a good fight and finished her race well. I know that she heard, “Well done�, when she entered into heaven. I am proud to call her my mom. I love her very much
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Theressa Wilborn posted a condolence
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Anyone who knew my mom couldn’t help but love her because she loved unconditionally. Even when she was very ill she would voice her concern for someone else. My mom reached out to so many people in her life, and she made her home available to many hurting souls. I’m sure she entertained many angels in the process. She's in the presence of the Lord now and getting to see all her loved ones who have gone to see Jesus. This includes…my Father, two brothers, and precious babies she had that were miscarried on this earth. What an honor for her to see her Savior face to face. I feel such an extreme loss, and yet a heartfelt joy and jealousy for her all at the same time. I miss her already. Anyone who knew mom could feel the love of the Lord that radiated so naturally from her. Time for her right now means nothing. It is I who must use my time wisely serving the Lord. My body is like a beautiful flower on this earth that will quickly go back to the earth that it was created from. Yet, the spirit within me will be with the Lord forever.
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Nikki McAdoo posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
To My Dear Aunt Joann my cousins and the rest of the family: JoAnn, you will be missed. I wish we lived closer and I could have spent more time with you guys throughout the years. It really is scary how quickly time passes. I am so sorry for everyone's loss. I am sure she touched many lives. She was such a warm, kind, generous and caring soul, who always made me feel loved, welcomed and accepted on the very few occasions I had the privilege of spending with her. It is so wonderful to have known someone whom you can look upon and think "wow, there still really are some great people left in this world who care about other people." It is a loss to all of us here on earth but a huge gain for the heavens. With love and gratitude, Nikki (Williamson) McAdoo
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Marla Williamson posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
My name is Marla Williamson. I was honored and proud to be called Joan's sister. Not her blood sister, but a sister In Christ. And she was my husband's sister too. I came from a broken family, so Joan was the best sister, in every way possible. I used to tell her," I want to be just like you when I grow up. Joan." I am sixty two, but the best things I have ever learned came from her. I drove from Helotes, Texas, just to spend some time with Joan and Harry. I will always be grateful that we had those golden moments together. We laughed, we cried, we all read scripture every day, and Joan and I even played dress-up, like little kids, when I bought her a new pair of black pants and a beautiful sweater to go with it. She commented that she loved the sweater because it kept her warm in church, and when we did go to church, she got so many compliments. Seemed like she sure knew a lot of people, and they were drawn to her like a magnet. When she wasn't feeling well, I'd give her a rub down just to help her feel a wee bit better. What we both did the most was talk about Jesus, or read about Him using a book by Rick Renner, "Sparkling Gems of Gold." That was what Joan was in her heart and soul. Joan is the most beautiful person I have ever known. She talked the talk, and walked the walk. Even on her bad days, I would tell her how beautiful She was. She would just smile, but it wasn't just her outward beauty, it was her inward beauty that radiated. Joan was so filled with the spirit that she absolutely glowed. I remember at my husband's memorial, after the service, my grandson, Matthew asked me, "Nana, who is the lady that sat behind us in church? I said,"She is papa's sister.. He kept staring until I reminded him that it was not proper to stare, but he couldn't take his eyes off of her. "She glows, Nana. She glows. I immediately knew what we all know about Joan. She is so spirit filled that she does, indeed, glow" Because of Harry and Joan, my 29 year old son was born again. This happened just 6 months before he passed away. That gave me so much comfort and hope. Then Jim and I became born again believers. Joan & Harry have saved so many souls for Christ through their prison ministries, and I am sure that Harry will continue on. I love this analogy. A group of people are standing by the ocean's edge, watching and waving to their loved ones on the ship. When the ship goes out of sight, someone yells, "There she goes." On the other side of that ocean, you can hear someone else say, "Here she comes." One day soon we will all see Joan again. I will remember all that she taught me to be, and will rejoice that she is with our Lord and Savior.
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Susan Williamson posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Joan, my sister-in-law,was a lovely, lovely person, without a doubt the most selfless, caring, pure-of-heart I've ever had the privilege of knowing. Though we were seperated by miles and time, she was always a presence in my life. I've never heard a critical, unkind word come from her. Although she suffered many losses and sorrows during her lifetime, she remained positive and strong in her faith. She guided her children in the same loving spirit as she lived her own life and they are all are a reflection of that strong character. I will miss not hearing her soft voice on the telephone, but I will keep it safely tucked in my heart. There is not a doubt in my mind that her place in Heaven has been reserved, and that she has joyfully been united with the family that went before her.
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14
October
Service Information
10:00 am
Thursday, October 14, 2010
River of Life Assembly of God
206 W Commercial Street
Inola, Oklahoma, United States
Interment Information
Ft Gibson National Cemetery
Fort
Gibson, Oklahoma, United States
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1936 - 2010
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