Wednesday, July 27, 2022
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I remember being invited by Roy and Mary Hayden to their home on several occasions. Mary was the ideal hostess, preparing their home and food in advance, so there was never any last minute rush to get things ready. She would be in the living room ready to make each one of us feel welcome, making make sure we all felt included, always smiling and offering encouraging words of affirmation. When we attended the same departmental events, I loved to seek her out and sit beside her as I enjoyed our quiet conversations. She enjoyed listening to what others had to say, and rarely drew attention to herself, as her gift was in drawing out others and encouraging them. When the Haydens moved to England and then to California, I always missed her quiet presence at the Theology Christmas parties and get-togethers. I miss her to this day. God bless our friend and mentor Roy Hayden and bring him great joy even though his beloved wife is no longer with us in body. She is definitely still with us in spirit, and we look forward to that glorious day when we will meet again on Heaven's golden shore.